Hi folks! I
hope your romantic and sexual life is ageing like fine wine. Falling in love
with someone is a momentary burst of massive energy and emotion, but as time
goes by, the butterflies stop flying in the stomach. Waking up beside the same
person doesn’t feel exciting anymore. Even making love becomes more likely to
be a habit and that’s where the intimacy gets lost in the void. This is one of
the reasons why the separation rate is so high nowadays. Having more than
enough options make us puzzled. Every two out of five couples are struggling
with a monotonous sex life, which was too true to be real once.
If
your sex life is losing its warmth, have a firm grip on it, instead of being
hopeless. Everything loses its charm with time, but we preserve those that
matter to us. Sometimes addiction to porn causes the same damage. Even after
being in a stable relationship, women keep watching BBCSEX, which causes
their partners insecurities and eventually a boring, habitual sex life. But with your care and effort, it can reignite
at any time.
Today
I will share some tricks to bring the spark back to your sex life.
Seduce
your mate
We,
humans, are weird. We stop flirting and seducing our partners once we win their
hearts. And that’s where the problem begins. Seduction plays a pivotal role in
intimacy, not only physical but mental too. Seduce your partner when they’re
not expecting it at all. At first, they’ll be surprised, for you haven’t
seduced them for a long time and then they will participate in the game. If
your man is looking for pleasure on porn sites like Elitebabes,
show him that you’re better than those babes he’s been fapping on.
Try
new positions
When
sex life loses its warmth, the thirst for experiment dies. Repeating those two
or three positions for years makes it monotonous. Discover new positions that
you two have never tried before and then take the lead on the bed. Apart from
missionary, doggy, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, and lotus there are still plenty
of positions you can try. And the best thing is discovering your own unique
comfortable sex positions together.
Explore
kinks
Do
you guys have dirty talks? There’s no such couple who has never sexted. Even
though you have a regular sex cycle, it's important to let your mate know that
you crave their touch when they're not around. It would subtly cheer up the
sexual intimacy between you and your partner. Drop dirty texts, and send them
nudes when they’re not expecting it.
Have
an open conversation with them about your fantasies and kink. Show your
interest when they share their fantasies with you. Then explore it together. Not
communicating is another form of miscommunication, don’t let that ruin your
beautiful bond.
Cuddle
You
might be thinking, what’s so special about it! But it is special! Not
necessarily you’ve to have sex all the time, spend some good time while
cuddling with each other under a cosy blanket when watching a movie or web
series together. There’s nothing more relaxing than feeling each other’s caring
touch. Sometimes even non-sexual things lead to the best sexual moments.
And
if you think that watching porn is an alternative to the divine sexual intimacy
you had with your partner, you’re on the wrong path darling! There are plenty
of porn sites like Pornhub, Brazzers, Naughty America, HEGRE VIDEOS etc, but nothing can compensate for the
lost warmth between a couple.
These
tricks and tips would only help you to approach your mate more smoothly. But
the basic is the love, trust and care you have for each other. Don’t let it
die.